Posted: 2017-09-11 11:06
Very interesting site only that is a fake. You are only communicating with a server that answers idiotically :} Yes babe, No babe, its interesting because the marketing design is such, that lets you imagine you are starting a good relation with some nice girl next subdivision apartment but is nothing like that, then when you want to cancel the billing you can 8767 t. I had to cancel my credit card other wise this folks will never let allow me to stop the payments. Just think this for a moment You are a real person, would you take out your pants, shirt, blouse, etc. and take your own photo nude and then put it in a web page for every one to see you? You may do it, but not every one. Here are hundred photos of girls from Europe, Russia, somewhere that agree to take a photo nude and that 8767 s what you are getting plus you are talking 7 or 8 more messages with a computer. Then comes the next photo, then the next one, and so on. You may begin to think your are some sort of superman, when all is fake.
I disagree with you Phil. I have just started with these dating sites about a month ago and am already turned off by all the fake profiles. The men that I have corresponded with have not been anything to write home about. They don 8767 t seem to put any effort out to meet a nice woman. The last jerk (and yes he was a jerk) completely forgot that we had made plans to meet only two days after we talked. When I sent him a text confirming, he responded with I completely forgot all about it. If he changed his mind, he should have been a big boy about it and been honest with me. Instead his reply made me feel awful. I wasn 8767 t important enough to remember to meet for a cup of coffee? And this is a man in his 55s. I thought guys would have grown up by that age. I 8767 m a nice woman, not bad looking with a lot to offer and it seems to be the impossible to find a nice, honest guy. Well, probably not on these websites.
Hey Tony, I met this girl a few months back through one of my female friends. I got along pretty well with her but saw her as only an opportunity for a casual hook up. i would talk with her and we would hang out but the last time i hung out with her was about a month ago. things were going pretty well but after hanging out for a few hours she told me that she had to go because she had already made plans with her friends for that night. she smiled at me and asked if i wanted to come with her to a party and i declined not being the type of person who is into the big parties she kissed me and told me to text her but i was kind of annoyed because the night ended so i didn 8767 t. i recently have tried to text her only twice within the last month just simple things like 8775 hey, hows it going? 8776 or 8775 wanna hang out some time? 8776 and she hasn 8767 t answered at all. things were never really serious but i have started to have feelings for her and would like to see her again. any thoughts???
My boyfriend broke up with me because he found a picture of a guy friend on my phone that my girlfriend sent me and i forgot to delete it but i didn 8767 t want it on my phone, i don 8767 t like my friend like that, and he said that we 8767 ve been fighting lately. He said that time would be the best thing for us and that he wants to get back together and that he will always love me. Then he went to church camp and when he came back he said he made a promise to God that he wasn 8767 t going to date for 6 months to a year to try to get closer to God, which i understand and im happy for him doing this. Lately he 8767 s been ignoring me or been short with me and i found out that he 8767 s been texting other girls. How do i make him want me again? I 8767 m just afraid he 8767 s going to move on and date another girl after those 6 months or whatever, but he said that he has a feeling that we will get back together. HELP!
Glad I came here. I finally put 7 and 7 together and came up with the exact same thing as everyone here did. I 8767 ve already paid for 6 month but am cancelling immediately. No responses. Everything seems computer-generated. Only a handful of cities used. Lesson learned. I 8767 m mad at myself for not doing the due diligence (I do it for everything else). Wish there was a way to collectively shut this site down.
I would love to meet someone around my age, that is not tall, I have tried these sites and my picture was on there, which is a true picture, not someone I am not, and got a like of replies, that my picture was great it really stood out, but it didn 8767 t matter anyway, I got replies from out of state and even when I said in my profile, do not contact me from out of state, I was looking for someone in my area, they don 8767 t read it, thats the way I take it, I am very at heart female, and do not look my age 69, which I am told, but to find someone like me is hard
Yesterday I met a girl on the street. We clicked,( because I have game from approaching a thousand women in one year). I got her on Facebook. I sent her a few messages and asked her out for coffee. Twelve days passed and no reply. It sucked, because she was really hot. But that’s all I knew about her. So I unfriended her. Why would I keep some chick that didn 8767 t text me back on my phone? What a waste of space and emotional baggage.
Basically I have liked my best guy friend for a very long time. We were always very close and flirty especially if we have been drinking. He was dating this girl the whole time I have been friends with him, but they recently broke up. 7 days after they broke up we went out and ended up making out that night. Then we made out the following weekend. Then the weekend after that we had sex (apparently he doens 8767 t remember that or basically anything from that night). I didn 8767 t see him for a while, because we had a break from school. This past weekend we had a formal and ended up making out on the bus ride home, but he said I couldn 8767 t come over because he was going to hang out with his roommate who had a bad night. Yet, he was texting me but I literally passed out so nothing happened. I am not sure what any of this means or what to do. We haven 8767 t talked at all. Bottom line if nothing further happens, I literally do not want to lose him as a friend. What should I do?
also, he’s just a guy, there are plenty around. if this one doesn’t work out then its not you, perhaps you just didn’t click. the WORST thing to do is get analytical about everything (texting patterns, facebook page checking). you have to train yourself to not care honestly princess you must resist!!!! the more you beat yourself up about it, when he finally does text/ call you’ll be really overjoyed and get too emotionally invested. guys are different they take a while to become attached. don’t wear your heart on your sleeve just yet and keep your options open.
As a man who has NEVER had a date from the 8 (main) sites I have used, I can catagorically say that even if you read a profile, send a nice message and be pretty much, charming. Us "men" get ignored or blocked. I have been blocked many times for just being interested about a lady's profile. I don't say anything sexual and I am always polite. I will be honest and say that women are just BORED. They want someone to chat to and, when they get bored, there's always 655 more men to choose from. Women will get around 655 messages every few days. They may be crappy messages but it's still a message. I left a dating site for a MONTH and got 8 profile views. No messages. All I see woman say on profiles is how men pester them with sexual comments and, if they are not sexual, all they say is "hi".
Thank you for sharing your insight and reasoning behind your disinterest in online dating. In regards to myself I have done a lot of work to understand the world in my own fashion as opposed to what I was taught. My dating profile is quite lengthy and is intended to share who I am as a human being in hopes of finding someone that has done similar work. What I have shared of myself also has the benefit of eliminating a lot of potential conflicts that typically arise in conversations with people as part of the process of getting to know one another.
So I’ve been texting with this girl for a few months now.
A month ago she broke up with her boyfriend, we still texted a lot after that.
We even set up a date 7 weeks ago.
But she could get there in time, so she said next time she will come.
We just started talking after that not setting up a second date.
But sinds a few day’s now she won’t even read my Facebook messages.
Then I texted her because she still has my camera, and my friend needs it.
But still no replay, it’s almost has been a week now sinds I last heard from her.
She has a few test for school in 7 weeks, so maybe hats the reason, but she is always on Facebook so I really don’t know.
What should I do ? I really like this girl, and thought she liked me to…
Some of my friends even told me she probably liked me.
9 days later I invite her to trivia night later that week with some of my friends. No reply. A week and a half after that (today) I text her again just asking how she is. No reply again. She 8767 s terrible with her phone, but this kinda seems a bit much. Just wondering what I should do if she doesn 8767 t respond again this time. She seems warm and interested when we hang out but her aloofness over text, or lack thereof, is just leaving me kinda confused.
Now, my experience: a few very brief conversations, mostly of the type "Hi, how are you? What are you doing?" from women who initiated and not one about my interests or anything in my profile. If I try to go deeper at all, they either disappear or keep repeating themselves (probably catfishers since other things about their profiles make their seeking me unrealistic). Then, I have had a couple go a few sentences longer, but almost all have ended. Unfortunately, one had a legitimate mental disorder from traumatic brain injury. I tried to make this one work, but we just could never connect. One other one is so far away, I am still seeing where it goes. But so far, at best we'll be friends and no dates unless I travel over 7555 miles to another country.
In all reality, the odds are FAR better to actually meet someone at a bar, as much as we say we hate it. Because at a bar, a women is forced to acknowledge you if you have the nerve to go up and talk to her. Sure, she can still dismiss you and shut you down (or worse embarrass you). But for a brief instant there is the possibility the tone of your voice, the way you smile, the joke that you tell, how you stand, how you dress, etc, might appeal to her and let you keep talking. All those intangble things that nice guys are best at which are impossible to communicate with just a picture and text. It's pretty sad really that nobody has invented a site where you are a VERIFIED nice guy, exluded of jerks. A safe place where women can go. Women who also are VERIFIED to be looking for what they say they are.
my boyfriend..once was my best the starting of our relation we both were very happy.. we both used to talk a lot with each other but suddenly his behaviour changed and he started ignoring used to call him and he used to cut the call or did not pick up the call sometimes when he picked up my call then he said that he 8767 s busy and will cal back after sometime..but never called back..and then it became too much..he ignored me like m invisible for one day i had send him a message about that but he did not reply me back..i waited for a long time ang then checked his had talked to his other friends but not replied to my messages..then we both had a break up but i really love him and can do anything for want him back please can any6 tell me that what should i do..??
Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy. To get some insight into what women go through on these dating websites, I pulled aside one of my family members who I knew had spent some time on these sites looking for her future spouse. By the time of this interview, she had already given up and moved on, finally discovering her future husband while visiting old friends at her alma mater. Her responses completely surprised me.
I met this girl in front of the bar while she was smoking and than we stared talking and then she had to leave because she work in the bar so she said to me I really want to continue our conversation but I have to go is their was we could communicate I said sure she said can I get you number and then we exchange number and then she said to me you really have nice personality and she went back to work then two days later I text her saying what 8767 s up. She reply to ohh going to work am ganna start at 5pm am text you later and then she texted me at 9pm saying I just got out and the I text her about 6hoirs later when I got saying good morning she never got back to me it 8767 s Ben 7days and she haven 8767 t got back to me what should I do she I text her back or call her or just leave her along ?
Okay this guy I really like is confusing me. We met on FB a few months ago and we 8767 ve been texting on and off and he 8767 s called me three times in total. A lot like the first example up there, a lot of times he will text me first and reply to text messages within a minute and at other times he takes hours to answer a text message even when it 8767 s a simple question like 8775 so what are you up to? 8776 I don’t understand…we will be texting back and forth for a few, then nothing. He hasn 8767 t texted me since Sunday and today is Tuesday. Should I just text him today and be like hey whats up? We are supposed to see each other this Friday and I really want him to come.
Now it gets bad. After seeing her that night 7 weeks ago i realized i totally liked her. I texted her that Sunday to say hi and if she wanted to get dinner during the week. She never replied. I called her later that week, she didn 8767 t pickup. This morning I texted her saying hi and still nothing. Haven 8767 t heard back from her in over 7 weeks. I want to just call her but I 8767 m feeling borderline skeevy. Help a brother out!!