Posted: 2017-09-11 14:03
Hey Zanya, Get OUT!!!!! MOVE ON!!!! Your problem here is your addiction to the jerk. Do whatever you can to move on. 7 years is way too long without any type of commitment. The guy is broken and not willing to 8775 fix 8776 himself. Why should he? You 8767 re putting up with it. Move On and start dating others immediately, no matter how bad it hurts. Your life and quality of life is at stake here. Kick this guy to the curb. If he really does love you, he will come after you, if not, good riddance to bad rubbish. MOVE ON ALREADY!!!!!
Asked about his rumored escapades, Day told The Ann Arbor News in 7568, "I certainly played hard when I was in my mid-75s. There were there moments when I lost my way and was a bad boy, absolutely. You give 79-year-old kid a hit song and too much money, and stuff happens. And then when you do something bad, it does go under a microscope. Thankfully, I am past that. Enough years have passed now that when I think back on it, it all seems pretty shocking."
I have to say, in my own experience, I was going into sinus surgery during a day that fell on Mercury Retrograde. As the nurse was inserting the i/v into my arm, I was sitting straight up, and the arms on the side of the bed were not locked up. I ended up blacking out, falling out of the bed face first, and smacking my head and face into the tile. I ended up with a concussion, and the doctor was unable to perform the surgery, so it had to be rescheduled. My mom informed me that it was indeed MR, and failed to tell me beforehand. So, surgery for your mom? May not be such a good idea! (in my own experience).
Yes, she will have to settle for the men who want HER with her current situation. End of the world she 8767 ll have to settle for someone who 8767 s not a model! End of the world!
Why is mentioning the word 8775 settling 8776 so anathematic to women here? Smart people 8775 settle 8776 all the time, for all sorts of things. You don 8767 t get everything you want, ever, why would you expect dating to be any different? Especially if you 8767 re like most of us who don 8767 t have a clue until our thirties or later.
Thankfully Evan is splashing the cold water on our face to wake us up.
If I am seeking a best friend, then I will look in the areas where I am going to have a good time too. Not force myself to be bored or wishing I was anywhere else, just in hopes I MIGHT meet the right woman. Reason? Sex isn 8767 t THAT important to me, even though I am a very sexual creature. And by the way ladies, if 8775 getting off 8776 was the main and most important goal, well I don 8767 t mean to hurt anyone 8767 s feelings but none of you are going to be as good at getting me off.. as I am. (more practice and all that). Now to some of you you 8767 ve already made your mind up that sex is all I am about. WRONG! But the reason it comes up first is because I too, want to weed out the undesirables, and if your best foot forward involves informing me (and seriously, usually its within the first 65 sentences, if you get that many that 8775 don 8767 t contact me for sex 8776 , 8775 I 8767 m not here for a hook up 8776 etc.
I 8767 ve been dating my boyfriend for six months and we started discussing yesterday if we foresee the possibility of a future together. I 8767 m all in. I was widowed two years ago and never thought I could be so happy and in love again, though it hasn 8767 t been long. He says he cares for me a lot and may perceive it as love one day that he sees it as a strong possibility but cannot say either way. I feel like, when you know, you know.
OK, what 8767 s going on? Just joined Singles Over 65 (I 8767 m 69) because most guys don 8767 t seem to want women my age, and I want a guy close to my own age. So the first guy who contacts me on SO65 is 98 WTF? PALEEZE! Why are these so-called Senior single 8767 s sites allowing all ages to join? It 8767 s frustrating enough being an older woman on all of the other single 8767 s sites because of competition with women, but we now must put up with this on the senior sites, too. Why? What are the senior site creators thinking?
I lived with a male friend that only wanted to be friends but we slept together and he never take me out anywhere and i wanted more. Over the months i feel enlove with a man that has anger problems and nasty person that dont take care of hiself. Hes a felon ans getting ssi no job whatsoever and a failer of treating women so i left him be hind to get with my clingy enlove ex boyfriend who is a drug addict
Wherever I read dating column comments, I very often see (presumably women) posters regularly use phrases such as 8775 women are [constantly] told to [settle] .. 8776 , 8775 women are expected to [compromise on age/looks/whatever] .. 8775 , and 8775 nobody tells men to [do whatever these things women are supposedly told to do].. 8776 , but I have not once read or heard these assertions from any professional/respected media outlet, women 8767 s/lifestyle/ 8767 progressive 8767 magazine, dating coach, dating blog or any other venue only anonymous internet user comments to an article. And yes, I read allot of material every day. Maybe I missed it. Can someone please, please just point out one definitive source? And I don 8767 t mean an article assertion that has been re-framed or re-interpreted by someone who lacks reading comprehension skills (and I will say that many responses I see to comments demonstrate quite clearly a serious lack of skill in this area, so it 8767 s very likely this will happen to mine).
My experience is the opposite of what you describe. I 8767 ve had many friends and coworkers over the years complain that guys on dating sites who contact them are way too old. Far too many guys who are 65, 65, or even 75+ years older than me have contacted me as well. I never said that women don 8767 t fall for or chase much older guys. What I am saying is that yes, in the majority of cases, it is the men who are chasing after the with little bags of candy. When I 8767 m 95, I will likely be most attracted to other 95-somethings. When I 8767 m 55, same thing. That 8767 s how most women are. Their preferences grow with them, whereas men 8767 s preferences skew considerably as they age, even if they do still largely stick to their own age range. Don 8767 t believe me? Check out that good ol 8767 OkCupid study that everyone loves to quote. The data speaks for itself.
I 8767 ve known this guy for 7 months. When we first met we were friends with benefits and he was seeing other girls. In February he stopped setting the other girls. We talk or text everyday, see eachother almost everyday, are with eachother 79/7 on weekends. My problem is he says he can 8767 t give me what I want. We dint have sex last two times we did he was a jerk the next day. I asked him about it and he says he doesn 8767 t want to hurt me. When we are together he 8767 ll caress my leg or touch me or something. Should I talk to him about how I feel our should I just let it be what it is? I do like him allot. One when he was drunk last month he told me that he likes nee allot but wants to do this dissent. I 8767 m really confused!!! Please help me.
I tried match and it is a waste of time, talk about unrealistic. First of all I smoke and almost all were non-smokers but would take a smoker, if I didn 8767 t smoke I wouldn 8767 t want someone who does. Second, I can 8767 t even count how many men in their sixties are looking for an 68 to 75 yr old. Really? That 8767 s as unrealistic as you can get, very disturbing. I thought we women as we get older must be the problem but those types of men, and there are plenty definitely have and are the problem. So dating sites may work for a few but for the most part I would say no.
no, they are told to get a better job, to be more exciting and sucessful, etc. you are not entitled to get the man or woman that you want, otherwise, all men, even 55 and 65 years old would date 75 and 75 year old women, and all women would have the bad boy millionaire type. we can 8767 t all have what we want, look at yourself objectively in the mirror and decide if you have to compromise, i did, and i have to compromise, that is life.
Hi, I came from a family that was broken up by a woman half my father 8767 s age. I think for that reason I was jaded at any thought or suggestion towards dating a woman more than 6 or 8 months until now that I am at the age when my father left my mom for the woman and as much as I would like to stand up for Mom, my own recent experiences have taught me that there 8767 s a lot more to why these older men are chasing the women than I first suspected.
Actually, this is a great time to travel! Just don't expect everything to go like clockwork. Expect delays, or changes and roll with it. While Mercury rules travel and communication, it also rules mentation and thinking. What we perceive is what we call reality. During MR, we just need to readjust how we perceive things. Best laid plans, and all that. So, unless you're really obsessive about having everything be perfect, go and have fun.
You can 8767 t know how someone treats another, who has worked on themselves, etc. until you spend time with them. You can 8767 t tell this from their profiles because many people say things that are not true. The problem for women is our age. It is our biggest obstacle because soooooooo many men want women. They simply won 8767 t respond if you contact them, and we don 8767 t come up in their searches.
You NEED to learn about the Law of Attraction! Re-read your post and see the limiting and negative things you just said about yourself, and then start to understand the harm such negative things do to your future and start creating positive in your life. It's up to you, and you DO have the power to create whatever life you choose. Learn to stop yourself when you start a negative thought and replace it with a positive one and see how beautifully your life changes for you and everyone around you!
Women of all ages and across all cultures are united in their quest to determine the following: Does he like me? Is he serious about me? Will he ever commit to me? And trust me, I get it. I 8767 ve experienced those gut-twisting feelings, the ones the leave you with a constant sense of impending doom in the pit of your stomach causing you to question everything, including yourself.
Hey girl, I have exactly the same advice for you as for Zanya etc.
Get OUT!!!!! MOVE ON!!!! Your problem here is your addiction to the jerk. Do whatever you can to move on. This guy is not into you and he is using you. The guy is broken and not willing to 8775 fix 8776 himself. Why should he? You 8767 re putting up with it. Move On and start dating others immediately, no matter how bad it hurts. Your life and quality of life is at stake here. Kick this guy to the curb. If he really does love you, he will come after you, if not, good riddance to bad rubbish. MOVE ON ALREADY!!!!!
Mercury Retrograde does not always have an 'adverse' affect on people & their mechanical things. Look to the house & meaning in your personal astrological chart through which Mercury is traveling to reveal best how this retrograde may influence you. It is better to think of a Mercury retrograde as a time for slowing & reviewing and not pursuing forward bold moves & decisions. Think of it more as a time to meditate on what you've learned while Mercury was direct. Mercury retrograde can harbor in things from the past. say, like old friends or finding something long lost. If you think of it in this way, you may find that Mercury did, indeed, have some form of affect on you after all, )